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1. Make sure the massage oil or lotion is warm. You can warm lotion by rubbing it between the palms of your hands.
2. Be inconsistent.  Touch your partner with your fingertips, fists, knuckles, elbows, the full palm and the heel of your palm.  Likewise, while touching, use a variety of strokes  — from deep rubbing and kneading to tickling and light scratching.  And feel free to lean in close, using your body weight to add force.
3. Kissing is considered a natural part of massage.  According to Chinese reflexology, arousal is tied to being touched on the spot just above the lip and the nose.
4. The brain, said to control our sexual impulses, can make or break potentially steamy moments.  Temples and the point just between the brows are unsexy tension cesspools.  So lay your lover’s head in your lap, rub these spots in a circular motion and let the endorphins flow.
5. When the chemistry is right, nibbling on, rubbing or kissing ears can trigger stimulative and sedative reactions.
6. Run your fingers through your partner’s hair and pull gently to stimulate the scalp.
7. Movements should always go toward the heart.  So if you want to reach your lover’s thighs, start at the toes and move your way up.
8. Reflexology also says hands and feet are microcosms of the body.  When tenderly caressed, hands and feet can signal the interior of the body.  So, in theory, you can touch a person’s heart by massaging the ball of the left foot, or tap into your beloved’s brain by massaging the big toes.
9. Hands, full or nerve endings, are incredibly sensitive.  So massage each finger along the joint to the tip with your fingertips or, perhaps, lip and mouth.

Source:  American Massage Therapy Association

One of the most universally recognized symbols of Valentine’s Day is Cupid. Legend has it that Cupid (that winged creature that makes us fall in love) is actually equipped with two kinds of arrows. He has golden arrows which cause true love when they penetrate the heart but he also has arrows made of lead which cause wanton sensual passion.

Cupid is the Roman god of love. He is said to be the son of Venus (the goddess of love) and is usually depicted as a chubby, mischievous child with wings who is armed with a bow and a quiver containing a never-ending supply of golden arrows. He uses the bow to shoot a golden arrow into the heart of the unsuspecting victim causing them to fall in love with the next person they meet. 

There is a mythological story that describes how Venus, while playing with her son, is scratched by one of his arrows and then falls instantly and helplessly in love with Adonis…the first man she saw after receiving the wound. 

In Greek mythology Cupid is known as Eros and is the winged son of Aphrodite. Cherubs are believed to be the descendants of Eros and they are usually depicted as lovable little winged angles that are not armed with bows and arrows. 

If Cupid aims an arrow in your direction this Valentine’s Day, just hope that he uses a golden arrow and not one that was made of lead. Wanton desire ends but true love lasts forever.  

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Some roses are pink. Pink roses symbolize grace and elegance. Some roses are yellow. Yellow roses symbolize warmth and happiness. White roses symbolize purity and innocence and orange roses symbolize energy, desire and enthusiasm. All roses are beautiful but on Valentine’s Day, only red roses will do. Red roses are the traditional symbol for love and romance and they have been for centuries.
 

The meaning of red roses can be traced back to some of the earliest cultures. The color red itself has always been symbolic of the very essence of life. In ancient Greek and Roman Mythology the red rose was very closely associated with the goddesses of love. In early societies, red roses were often used as a part of traditional wedding ceremonies. Brides and grooms exchanged red roses as a symbol of lasting love so the red rose just naturally evolved into the ultimate symbol of true love and devotion.
 

Red roses, as we know them today, were brought to Europe from China in the 1800’s. Poets of old waxed eloquent about the red, red rose. The red rose is featured in many classical paintings. In our modern multi-media world, the red rose is still used as a symbol of true and undying love.
 

A single perfect red rose is a perfect gift for a young man to give to a young woman that he is falling in love with. A dozen red roses are even better. On Valentine’s Day all roses are red because red roses are the universal symbol of undying love.  

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The inventiveness of those who make sexy gifts knows no bounds. Whether your relationship is a day old or a decade old, there’s something to spice up February 14th for you.

Chocolates may not technically be an aphrodisiac. But they can certainly get her heart racing. Add in some flowers and you’re already part way down the road to romance. Now you can bring out the heavy hardware.

That ‘heavy hardware’ can actually be something as light as a feather: sexy lingerie. It’s what everyone thinks of first when they think ’sexy gift’, right? Not a bad idea, but there are a few things to keep in mind.

Guys buying lingerie for a woman should consider whether the gift is a hint or a present. Nothing wrong with both, provided your relationship has reached or passed that stage. But no one likes to feel pressured to move to the next step. You may find them just moving on instead.

Make sure you get the right size and style. Some women don’t feel comfortable in a form-fitting lace body stocking. They like to hide those extra pounds or retain a bit of mystery before any unveiling. Look around at what she already owns and wears. Ask her friends what she might like.

Similar advice is valid for women buying for men. Not every guy thinks heart-covered boxer shorts is a motivator for lovemaking. It can be seen as nothing but a way to make him look ridiculous. Of course, your guy could never look bad in anything, or so you should assure him.

Move beyond clothing, though.

Massage oil makes a good sexy gift for Valentine’s Day. Everyone likes a massage. It can be just a great experience or the perfect prelude to slippery sex. But don’t just give body oil. Promise to use it. Then follow through.

Silk sheets don’t go well with body oils. But they can provide a similar experience. When you crawl into bed with these on the mattress, you’ll know what sensual is all about. Just don’t get so distracted by the gift that you forget about your partner!

Maybe your partner is a little intellectual, maybe not. Either way, romance can always benefit from a little fantasy or imagery. A ‘how to’ book might be a little clinical, or even be seen as insulting. But a custom-written book of erotic stories that feature the two of you as the main characters could be a bestseller in your home.

Everyone likes to play games. In love, those games can turn sexy in the right setting. You can get a pre-made board game that builds anticipation and makes you laugh, both good precursors to romance. Or, you can have a game custom made that shows the progress of your relationship. In the end, you discover you were made for each other. Roll the dice and get lucky.

Get a sexy Valentine’s Day gift for your partner or playmate. Who knows? You may just find out what love has to do with it.

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Whether your relationship is a day old or a decade old, getting away for Valentine’s Day might be just the ticket. Luckily, there are dozens of choices no matter where you live.

In the colder climates, nothing is more romantic than a snow bound lodge with a roaring fire. Put your feet up, clink two glasses of wine together and toast your good fortune at finding one another.

Vermont and other popular ski areas provide ample space to accommodate couples for Valentine’s Day. Cabins range from isolated, one-room buildings to a cozy 10 ft x 12 ft room in a huge, multi-guest lodge. Some packages include skiing. Some are designed specifically for those who just want to laze about and gaze into one another’s eyes.

Warmer climes may not offer the traditional winter look, but they can be just as romantic. After all, February 14th is the middle of summer below the equator. Sign up for a cruise to the Bahamas and make Valentine’s Day something to remember forever.

On the ship, couples will get special treatment. Rooms can be made up in style to celebrate this unique holiday. Romantic candlelight dinners for two are available. Then you can both hit the tables for a little gambling. After all, you rolled the dice in love and won, didn’t you?

Even just staying near home can provide lots of chances for a romantic rendez-vous. Pick out a fine hotel and book a room for Valentine’s Day. Be prepared to find everything ready for you and your special someone.

Styles range from the huge, heart-shaped hot tub in the room made up like a harem to an elegant 4-star experience. Have dinner served in the room and eliminate all distractions. Or, get dressed in your best and make your way to the restaurant downstairs. You’ll be so focused on one another that no distractions exist for you.

Treat one another and go for the combination Hotel/Spa experience. Even one day in these luxury resorts can make February 14th the most memorable holiday ever. Nothing encourages romance like being pampered to in every way.

You can have a relaxing swim in the morning, then an outstanding brunch. You can’t call it breakfast, after all, because you got to sleep in very late. You can lounge around the pool or go to the gym for a vigorous run to get your heart pumping. Naturally, just being near your Valentine should be enough to do that. Don’t forget to say so.

In the afternoon, you can enjoy one of the spa’s stellar massages, followed by a skin treatment. That will put you in the perfect mood to dig into one of their superb meals. Spas are excellent at combining good nutrition with great taste, so you won’t be disappointed.

The key to a successful Romantic Getaway for Valentine’s Day is to truly get away. Leave the day-to-day worries at home. Focus on that special someone you chose to spend this day with. Treat them like the most important customer in your life. You’re sure to get a big tip.

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Valentine’s Day is celebrated by almost everyone. Yet it remains the most personal holiday. Valentine’s Day is still strongly oriented toward those we love. Sometimes we might give a card or small gift to a casual friend. But the holiday is geared to those closest to our hearts. One of the best ways to express that is to give a gift personalized for that special individual.

Fortunately, there are a 101 different ways to do that without breaking a sweat.

Pillowcases are a delightful way to show affection for that person you sleep with. Go beyond ‘His and Hers’ and have that loved one’s name stitched or embossed onto a set of pillowcases. Speaking of ‘His and Hers’, towels can also be a great way to do the same thing.

Jewelry gives another excellent opportunity to personalize a gift for a male or female. A locket with a photo is traditional, as is an inscription with a name and special phrase. But jewelry can be personalized in a number of ways. Birthstones are just one example. Each birth month is associated with a particular mineral, such as topaz or amethyst. Beauty and individuality go together well.

Extend that idea to include any small personal item worn. Watches are a foolproof chance to inscribe a name and phrase that is meaningful to both giver and recipient. Both the case and the strap give plenty of room to etch or stitch, and they can include birthstones as well.

What better way to remind him or her of her or him than a photo? But don’t just send a jpeg or a glossy paper photo with a few words attached. Get a beautiful frame and personalize it. A traditional wood frame can be lovely. But today you can go beyond that and include computerized electronics in the frame itself. That combines the best of both worlds.

With an electronic frame you can have a phrase of your own devising display at certain times of the day. Or, you can get a photo holder that has the ability to download different pictures. They can show that special Valentine’s Day vacation you shared.

Everyone likes to play games and there are lots of ways to personalize even the most popular, like Monopoly. Have a custom made board that includes your favorite photos! But other games offer an equally interesting way to personalize a Valentine’s Day gift. How about a set of golf clubs and bag that show clearly who is their owner? A basketball with a Michael Jordan autograph would be worth money. But one written with his or her name will be worth a lot in a different kind of coin: the currency of love.

Stuffed animals make for great Valentine’s Day gifts for that special someone. Personalize it by having it custom made to resemble the giver. It can be dressed with a unique tie or those funky shoes that only they wear. Be sure to have a name stitched on or embossed to complete the package.

Be creative and give your gift some thought. You’ll quickly discover there are 101 ways to personalize it. The gift will show that it could only have come from that unique person, and only been given to the equally unique one they’re with.

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Gifts are great. But they’re incomplete without that all important Valentine’s Day card. Yet, sometimes, what you want to say just isn’t available in printed or electronic form. Don’t despair! Make your own.

Sure, you’re not a poet. But you don’t have to invent your own rhymes to make your own card. You can freely borrow the long and worthy words of Wadsworth Longfellow or the telling phrases of Tennyson. The pros do, all the time.

And don’t be put off by the fact that you might not be the world’s greatest graphic artist. Here again, the commercial card makers often buy and borrow. These are options if you don’t happen to have the artist’s gift yourself.

Computer graphics programs can easily help you do both. You can select phrases from a billion different sources online. Then combine them with photos or drawings from almost as many places. With only a modest effort you can create a card that looks just as you want, and says just what you mean. Don’t have a color laser printer? Not to worry. Take or send your file to a business that will print it out for you.

But maybe you do have at least a little bit of artistic talent. Or, a willingness to make the effort, at least. That might well produce a very fine result. After all, the recipient is rarely going to judge the card, so much as the sentiment. ‘A for effort’ still means a lot.

So, gather together those materials and get started.

Colored card stock is item #1. You can go for a plain, colored base in traditional red. Or, you can expand your creative horizons and buy card stock that has a pre-printed design. It could be simply an abundance of hearts or flowers. Or, it could portray just the mood you want to evoke. There’s no end of choices available.

Now, get out your pen and pencil set.

Maybe you want to make an elegant drawing. Or, you could just stencil on some well chosen words. The options range from nothing more than signing your name in a lush ink scrolling font to decorating the entire card.

But hand drawing or printing text isn’t for everyone. Sometimes, we need a little assistance.

Templates, photos and more will help flesh out that card. A little bit of non-bleeding glue dots or spray adhesive will help here. Scrapbookers know all the tricks of the trade, so seek out some advice from those who maintain one. They’ll point you to just the right chalks, rub-ons, photo corners and more to create that perfect card.

Most of all, remember the whole idea of making your own card: to express the unique relationship between you and your Valentine. That’s only possible when your card shows them the unique feelings you have for that special person.

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There’s a reason that jewelry and watches make such popular Valentine’s Day gifts. They combine the elegance and fun of romance with beauty and practicality. In short, they represent everything that this day of celebrating love is all about.

Simple diamond earrings are traditional and there’s nothing wrong with that. Some things remain popular because they’ve proven their value over time. But birthstone earrings are a nice alternative. They are represented by a different stone for each month.

But stones aren’t the only option. Gold, silver, and platinum continue to top the jewelry list, as well. Nothing says ‘I love you’ like the brilliance of a gold ankle bracelet. Especially if it’s actually inscribed with…. Well, you get the idea. Get a silver bracelet studded with jade and you’ve got a gift that will be remembered long after February 14th has come and gone.

Necklaces are an excellent opportunity to combine stones and metal to form a gift that both of you can appreciate for a lifetime. Small rubies wandering through a web of platinum are the ultimate. But even a simple string of pearls will show how deeply you appreciate the one you’re with.

Jewelry isn’t just for women, either. But, then, neither is Valentine’s Day! A finely crafted ring made of gold and onyx will look great on that guy’s hand. A gold watchband with a single brilliant diamond still makes a manly statement.

Speaking of watches…. Don’t forget that these timepieces are still a hot ticket. You would think that with all the cell phones, PDAs, laptops and more around these days that a wrist-worn clock would find no takers. Not so. Watches are more popular than ever.

A Hamilton Ventura still says everything it did 50 years ago: style, achievement, good taste. A great looking Bulova watch can easily be found for man or woman. Rolex, Tissot and others still make some of the finest and most stylish watches around.

A watch provides a double opportunity to personalize a Valentine’s Day gift as well. The back is still the perfect place to put that intimate, short phrase devised for that special person in your life. A leather or alligator wristband can easily be embossed or stitched with initials or a few timeless words.

Diving watches are a first rate alternative to more traditional timekeeping pieces. They combine the simple function of noting the time with much more complex features like a timer, depth calculations and more. For the sportsperson in your life, they can be the perfect Valentine’s Day gift.

There’s another type of diving watch, as well: a skydiver’s watch. They judge altitude, temperature, wind speed and direction, and many more vital parameters. Combine one of these with a day jump and you have a Valentine’s Day celebration that will be remembered for a long time to come.

Combine tradition with modern creativity and you won’t have to wonder what to give for Valentine’s Day. The answer will just appear on your body.
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Oh, boy, what do you give for Valentine’s Day? It seems like everything has been done and you want to think of something special. Well, you can go traditional and give the gift a twist to make it unique. Or, you can break away from the pack and give that gift that no one has ever thought of before.

Flowers are always appreciated, by either woman or man. You can never go wrong with these traditional and lovely plants. But speaking of plants, how about something more permanent? How about a bonsai tree whose branches are shaped like your loved one’s name? Ok, that might take a little longer to plan than you have. But you could get one with a tiny rock garden that spells out “I Love You”.

Candy is traditional, too. But a box of chocolates is a box of chocolates… unless it’s from Russia. Or Tibet. Or a little known town in the southwest corner of Missouri called Donchawannit. The idea is to make the gift something the same as the usual that is also a little bit different.

Maybe he or she is the outdoors type. Sure a personalized set of golf clubs is a great idea. But you might be saving that for Christmas. So, how about a toboggan ride down some snow-covered slopes along a path that spells out his or her name? Then you can take a photo at the end and put it in that special frame you’ve been saving.

Hmmm… Maybe that’s a little hard to arrange. So, make it easy on yourself. Go with that favorite wine. But, wait. Don’t just pick up a bottle at the local store. A gift membership from an online wine club is the gift that keeps on giving all year ’round. And, rather than one wine, you get a dozen or more. Now, that says “I Love You”. Or, that you’re with an alcoholic. It’s hard to be sure.

No one would turn down a new car. But that could stretch the budget just a little. So, how about a new toy car? It could be in the form of a complex model the two of you could build. With a hundred parts or more you could be done just in time for next year’s Valentine’s Day. Or, in the same vein, you could go for a miniature ship that says “Ahoy, let’s sail off together into the sunset”.

One of you just has a heart set on jewelry. Not a bad idea. But jazz it up. Make it unique. Sure, diamond earrings are always a hit. But instead you could go for a kanji ankle bracelet made with gold and amethyst. The Japanese characters can be selected to say “Long Joy Together” while no one has to translate what the jewels mean.

Be creative. Combine the old with the new. Take an idea and turn it upside down or inside out. After all the one you’re with often does that to you, no?

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Guys have a hard time with Valentine’s Day. It so often seems that the day is really for females. It’s the perfect opportunity to come up with something special. The rewards are ample.

Flowers, chocolates, jewelry, even wine… these are standard. And they still are great ideas. But go beyond the usual. Be creative. Give your gift some serious thought.

If you want to go with flowers, do more than just write a word or two on the card that comes with them. Make it an entire scroll, full of poetry and images that shows you know who she is and what she wants. Roll it up and secure it with a ribbon from her hair.

Chocolates are always appreciated. But don’t just get a box of the usual from the local store. Find those unique confections and that special container that no woman has ever seen before. It could be Japanese. They have a unique way of celebrating in which the woman gives chocolates on Valentine’s Day. Then, the man reciprocates on March 14th. That opens some interesting possibilities.

Some women don’t wear jewelry. For those who do, make sure you choose a ring or bracelet that is unique. No woman wants to appear at the party wearing the exact thing her friend is wearing. Get something custom made or specially inscribed.

Wine is a great Valentine’s Day option. But make sure you know what she likes… then go out of your way to get that type from a very unusual source. It might be a specialty vintage from British Columbia. Or, it could be a unique brand from Turkey. Valentine’s Day is special. Make the wine special, too.

Now, get really creative.

Think long and hard about what that special someone enjoys that is different from others you know. Every woman wants to know that you’ve been listening and observing. Prove that by seeking out a gift that fits her just right.

That fit could be literal: a piece of lingerie that is her color, her size, her style. Or, ‘fit’ could be metaphorical. It could mean finding the CD that contains her favorite song or artist. Not yours! It might entail hunting down that book she read years ago that still has a special meaning for her.

Take it up a notch. Make her the focus of the day, or at least the evening. Find that restaurant that she has been wanting to go to forever, but you’ve been too busy (or too cheap!) to try. Ask her friends to tell you what she was reluctant to reveal because she didn’t want to make you feel bad. Make it a surprise.

Gifts are always appreciated. But they’re only worth as much as the thought that went in to them. The key to Valentine’s Day success is finding out what she likes. Her. That unique individual.

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